Posts Tagged ‘Fear’

Travel Anxiety – How to Manage Travel Anxiety?

February 26th, 2010



People with panic disorder tend to get anxious and pangs of fear whenever there is a trip drawing near. Now, most people want to know whether there is a way to ward off these fears and anxieties in near future.

Yes, there are several ways to manage travel anxiety. First, you need to determine the situation you are in and figure out a great plan for make a trip more enjoyable.

It is a great idea to discuss with your therapist prior to planning a trip. Here, the focus needs to be given on penning down all your thoughts as you go through the steps and then discuss with your therapy about your future plan.

- Steps:

a) Analyze the situation

Go through the whole trip step by step. Here, you must include how you would travel, all your accommodations, people you would meet, the activities you would engage in etc. Thereafter, you need to determine your anxiety regarding each plan. Once you do this, just rate the overall anxiety level.

b) Honesty

You require to be honest and very realistic regarding what’s possible. Here, you need to work with your therapist. You must make sure that you have enough time to prepare for the trip and the events associated to it.

Do not care about pressure coming from other people. In case, you decide that you are unable to take a specific trip, you owe it to yourself to work on the fears that restrict you from doing so.

c) Plan

You must come up with a plan in order to do something about your fear. As soon as you decide to go out on a trip, make a list of each step involved in the trip and also any fear related to it. Once, the list is ready, it is time to decide on what to do for each fear that you encounter when going out on a trip.

d) Decide on fears that need to be removed

For instance, if you fear flying and have about six months to prepare the entire trip, fix up a meeting with a cognitive behavioral therapist to discuss on the fear you face. Tell him about the fears you encounter at a specific period of time in order to work on it in an organized manner.

e) Feel comfortable

You need to do everything that makes you feel comfortable for a trip. Go for shopping and buy some good and important stuff for yourself.

f) Stay organized

Plan for your trip way ahead. Do not make last minute reservations. This will only create panic.

g) Speak to other people

Try to speak to other people who face the same problem. This will make you feel much better. Try to be a member of a local support group.

h) Inform your friends

Keep your friends informed about panic disorder.

i) Avoid rush

Try to be on time and a little early. This will relax you.

j) Breathe

Focus on breathing. Take slow and deep breathe.

By: Bertil Hjert

Astral Travel Problems – Is Astral Projection Dangerous?

February 9th, 2010



In this article I’d like to take a quick look at some of the myth and misinformation that exists about astral travel problems and the potential danger in the practice. Now, first let me say that I’m a firm believer in taking good care of your psychic self, and do believe that you can open yourself up to a figurative (and literal) can of worms if you don’t practice SOME form of precautionary practice when surfing the supernatural realms. With that said, there is absolutely NO proof that there is ANY danger in the astral body, or at least none that you are going to experience during projection practice.

You want to know why I’m so certain of this fact? Well, I know there are folks out there who have claimed to have all kinds of troubles with astral “wildlife” and thought forms and the like, and even some pretty well known gurus have intimated there is a risk, right? I’m here to tell you not only do I disagree…I would say that there are all kinds of people out there who may in fact be well intentioned, but might still be a card or two short of a full deck to boot..:-) 

  I’ve simply seen nothing in my own experience, or in any of the hundreds of accounts that I respect that anything TRULY dangerous lurks in the astral, other than projections of our own unfiltered consciousness. I would argue, and MOST would certainly agree that much of what takes place in the moments where you are free from the confines of your physical shell are the most liberating, freedom finding and exhilarating adventure you can experience! (And I would hate for anyone to pass up the opportunity to learn more out of a fraudulent fear that there is something to be afraid of..:-)

By: Tina Bardo